It might have been the Romans who nailed Christ to the cross, but it was God’s severe mercy that kept him there.
I first became aware of this term in college when I read Sheldon Vanauken’s autobiographical narrative, A Severe Mercy. In this story he shares how God used several events in his life to establish and develop his Christian faith. The most significant and painful was the illness and death of his wife Davy. Their story will be portrayed in the movie A Severe Mercy scheduled for release in 2008.
It’s hard to look at death and be grateful, mostly because our human nature clings to this earthly life as the fulfillment of existence or purpose. But for those who embrace the truth of the cross and the power of the resurrection, we understand that this life is the mere starting point for an eternal destiny. This awareness helps get us through those difficult times of losing a loved one.
My mom passed away almost four years ago. When her leukemia returned after a brief remission, the doctor's prognosis of months quickly turned to weeks. Even when we thought she had days, it turned out to be a matter of hours. I was not able to be at her bedside. In fact, I never got to say good-bye. I felt cheated and angry and alone.
I didn't realize it at the time but that moment was a crossroad for me. Even though I did not have that desired moment of closure with my mom in those last days, I will never forget the last time she said "I love you" on the phone. Her voice was feeble but the words were strong and they mean more to me today than when they were spoken. They compel me to talk more often with my dad and siblings. They remind me to hug my children more tightly and tell them how proud I am of them. They motivate me to love my wife more selflessly with the gift of each day.
Where , O death is your victory?
Where, O death, is your sting?
I Corinthians 15:55
Today is dark but the dawn of Resurrection Sunday will most certainly reveal the purpose of God’s severe mercy in the death of His son. I wish you His comfort and peace this weekend and forever.